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Gemini
03-21-2012, 11:17 PM
Cole, my husband and best friend, died this past Sunday. Although his death was not entirely unexpected, it was very sudden. He and I had a wonderful morning on Saturday and by 12:30 AM on Sunday he was gone. His death was peaceful, at least. Although I am beyond devastated, he left me with the greatest gift. In April I will give birth to his beautiful daughter.

Gemini
03-21-2012, 11:17 PM
Cole, my husband and best friend, died this past Sunday. Although his death was not entirely unexpected, it was very sudden. He and I had a wonderful morning on Saturday and by 12:30 AM on Sunday he was gone. His death was peaceful, at least. Although I am beyond devastated, he left me with the greatest gift. In April I will give birth to his beautiful daughter.

MiddleAgedLady
03-21-2012, 11:26 PM
Oh! I'm so very, very sorry for your loss. How heartbreaking he never met his daughter. Praying heavenly comfort for you.

MiddleAgedLady
03-21-2012, 11:26 PM
Oh! I'm so very, very sorry for your loss. How heartbreaking he never met his daughter. Praying heavenly comfort for you.

kitomd21
03-22-2012, 03:24 AM
Thinking of you - so grateful he gave you a daughter to remember him by. Prayers for strength and comfort.

kitomd21
03-22-2012, 03:24 AM
Thinking of you - so grateful he gave you a daughter to remember him by. Prayers for strength and comfort.

kgfrompa
03-22-2012, 11:48 AM
I am so sorry for your loss!<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0">

kgfrompa
03-22-2012, 11:48 AM
I am so sorry for your loss!<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0">

jessykt
03-22-2012, 11:50 AM
There isn't anything I can say to comfort you....I'll be thinking of you and your little one. I hope you find strength somehow. So glad you had a good Saturday. I hope your daughter brings you some peace. She'll have someone looking over her always!

jessykt
03-22-2012, 11:50 AM
There isn't anything I can say to comfort you....I'll be thinking of you and your little one. I hope you find strength somehow. So glad you had a good Saturday. I hope your daughter brings you some peace. She'll have someone looking over her always!

Simba15
03-22-2012, 11:50 AM
I am so very sorry for your loss. Please take to heal, rest and reflect. God is with you.

Simba15
03-22-2012, 11:50 AM
I am so very sorry for your loss. Please take to heal, rest and reflect. God is with you.

Laura47
03-22-2012, 12:05 PM
I am so, so sorry for your loss. May you find peace and comfort in your memories - and in your daughter.

My deepest sympathy,
Laura

Laura47
03-22-2012, 12:05 PM
I am so, so sorry for your loss. May you find peace and comfort in your memories - and in your daughter.

My deepest sympathy,
Laura

JORDYSMOM
03-22-2012, 12:38 PM
I'm just so sorry for your loss. Nothing I type seems adequate. Praying for you.

Stacey

JORDYSMOM
03-22-2012, 12:38 PM
I'm just so sorry for your loss. Nothing I type seems adequate. Praying for you.

Stacey

ladeedah
03-22-2012, 01:36 PM
I am so sorry for your great loss. I am sure that the wonderful memories of your husband and the arrival of your daughter will bring you much joy in the future. I will keep you in my prayers that you will have strength during this difficult time and for the safe delivery of your darling daughter ... she will be here soon.

ladeedah
03-22-2012, 01:36 PM
I am so sorry for your great loss. I am sure that the wonderful memories of your husband and the arrival of your daughter will bring you much joy in the future. I will keep you in my prayers that you will have strength during this difficult time and for the safe delivery of your darling daughter ... she will be here soon.

nenbay
03-22-2012, 01:37 PM
I cried reading your post. I can't imagine what you are feeling. God bless you and your baby girl. That is truely the best gift he could have given you. Take care and remember he is able to beathe easy now.

nenbay
03-22-2012, 01:37 PM
I cried reading your post. I can't imagine what you are feeling. God bless you and your baby girl. That is truely the best gift he could have given you. Take care and remember he is able to beathe easy now.

TreasureGoddess
03-22-2012, 05:28 PM
Oh Gemini,
Best wishes and lots of love & prayers to you and your family. Good luck with the new little one and I'm so glad you had a good day at the end together that you can treasure.

TreasureGoddess
03-22-2012, 05:28 PM
Oh Gemini,
Best wishes and lots of love & prayers to you and your family. Good luck with the new little one and I'm so glad you had a good day at the end together that you can treasure.

lilmac1177
03-22-2012, 09:50 PM
oh my goodness, there are no words...

i'm so sorry for the loss of your husband, best friend and father of your lil' one on the way, but it's my hope that your daughter will be a great source of memories and comfort for you. i'll keep you in my prayers and best wishes for you and your daughter's future

lilmac1177
03-22-2012, 09:50 PM
oh my goodness, there are no words...

i'm so sorry for the loss of your husband, best friend and father of your lil' one on the way, but it's my hope that your daughter will be a great source of memories and comfort for you. i'll keep you in my prayers and best wishes for you and your daughter's future

beleache
04-15-2012, 09:48 AM
I am so sorry for your loss.. Thoughts & Prayers for you & for your baby girl. &lt;3 joni

beleache
04-15-2012, 09:48 AM
I am so sorry for your loss.. Thoughts & Prayers for you & for your baby girl. &lt;3 joni

Printer
04-15-2012, 11:08 AM
I wish that there words that could comfort your loss, my heart goes out to you.

Bill

Printer
04-15-2012, 11:08 AM
I wish that there words that could comfort your loss, my heart goes out to you.

Bill

nocode
04-25-2012, 01:51 PM
Gemini,

Best wishes to you and your little baby girl. Has she been born yet?
Hugs.

nocode
04-25-2012, 01:51 PM
Gemini,

Best wishes to you and your little baby girl. Has she been born yet?
Hugs.

GrammyB
04-25-2012, 02:41 PM
I am so very sorry for the loss of your husband and best friend, Cole. I pray that you will take comfort in this new life that he has given you. My prayers are with you during these hard days.
Beverly

GrammyB
04-25-2012, 02:41 PM
I am so very sorry for the loss of your husband and best friend, Cole. I pray that you will take comfort in this new life that he has given you. My prayers are with you during these hard days.
Beverly

3RingCircus
04-25-2012, 06:27 PM
My thoughts are with you.
I'm sorry that there are no words to fix a heart.

3RingCircus
04-25-2012, 06:27 PM
My thoughts are with you.
I'm sorry that there are no words to fix a heart.

LittleLab4CF
04-26-2012, 08:49 AM
Our family watched my father lose the battle for his barely 48 year life that ended August 1970. Undiagnosed until autopsy, we watched what amounted to all the things one shouldn't do for CF, all at the family doctors direction. In the end, he mercifly went quickly. I was 20 years old and overnight became the family bread winner. So much of your life instantly changed the moment he shed the bonds of his mortal coil. You have had a celebritory good by. The fridge is almost clear of loaned dishes used to hold meals the first week after your husband's passing. He has found his peace, and now you must find yours. If the final take away is a pleasant day starting with some quality time, an end to suffering, for him and a baby from a combination of you both. Long, lonely times, maybe strongest when you go to an empty bed or finishing out the nursery. Live without the weight of his memory, love knowing he wants and expects your life to be rich and full. It is a release as much for you as it is for you. Mourn, then grieve as you need to as you move on. I am so sad for you. Good Luck

LittleLab4CF
04-26-2012, 08:49 AM
Our family watched my father lose the battle for his barely 48 year life that ended August 1970. Undiagnosed until autopsy, we watched what amounted to all the things one shouldn't do for CF, all at the family doctors direction. In the end, he mercifly went quickly. I was 20 years old and overnight became the family bread winner. So much of your life instantly changed the moment he shed the bonds of his mortal coil. You have had a celebritory good by. The fridge is almost clear of loaned dishes used to hold meals the first week after your husband's passing. He has found his peace, and now you must find yours. If the final take away is a pleasant day starting with some quality time, an end to suffering, for him and a baby from a combination of you both. Long, lonely times, maybe strongest when you go to an empty bed or finishing out the nursery. Live without the weight of his memory, love knowing he wants and expects your life to be rich and full. It is a release as much for you as it is for you. Mourn, then grieve as you need to as you move on. I am so sad for you. Good Luck

kitomd21
04-26-2012, 08:19 PM
I can't imagine how difficult this time must be. I'm so grateful that you will have the joy of your little one in your arms soon. My heart goes out to you.

kitomd21
04-26-2012, 08:19 PM
I can't imagine how difficult this time must be. I'm so grateful that you will have the joy of your little one in your arms soon. My heart goes out to you.

cnsky54RRT
04-27-2012, 02:51 AM
Thought of you today and hope all is well with a new baby girl in your arms. Wishing you much strength....

john

cnsky54RRT
04-27-2012, 02:51 AM
Thought of you today and hope all is well with a new baby girl in your arms. Wishing you much strength....

john