View Full Version : my boyfriend hurts me emotionally and he don't seem to care.

12-31-2004, 03:44 AM

12-31-2004, 10:10 AM
When I was in relationships like that, I just remembered that there are millions of other guys out there and that MY life was too short for me to have to put up w/ his b.s. I would move on and kick his shaggy butt to the curb.
Most times it's better to have no one than to put up w/ being uphappy all of the time because of a controlling, hurtful boyfriend.
And when I gave it a chance, someone better did come along....my husband & I wouldn't trade him for anything!

12-31-2004, 01:16 PM
My sister was in a relationship like that. The result was that she did not take good care of herself. Did not do her treatments , etc.
The result was that the cf got out of control and she died at 29 of her CF. Maybe a better outlook would have helped.
I had my first husband leave because he could not cope with the possibility of losing me after her death.
There are good men out there! I am now 50 years old. I am engaged to the most wonderful man in the world, he does all for me and supports me in all ways. He was worth the wait. ( I was divorced for 12 years!) My advice is don't put up with it. Ditch him. The hurt is hard at first but believe me your own piece of mind will help you to focus on YOU. And you willl find a good man just by the self confidence you will exude!!
be strong!!!

01-15-2005, 05:21 PM
now the original post isnt there anymore but im going to reply anyways. I also agree. you dont need somme worthless scum that makes you feel like Cr*p 90% of the time and is nice 10% of the time while still going behind your back and doing things that will hurt you at a later date. it isnt worth it to stick around for thaqt 10% of the time. there will be better guys out there. I personally cant stand This kind of thing.

01-17-2005, 05:03 PM
I say ditch him...you can do way better than him!!